Clare Grogan: How The Change made me realise I needed to be heard

In this regular Sunday feature, we enquire Scots near 10 things that changed their life. This week, Clare Grogan, Altered Images singer and eatery owner.

I DIDN'T come from a showbiz family, just when I was growing upward everyone at home had a huge interest in music and that had a massive issue on me equally a child. From equally early as I can remember there was always a record histrion on, pretty much at all times. Information technology'southward a much bigger part of my childhood memories than the boob tube. Also, considering there were three generations living together, in that location was a really eclectic range of music as well.

Apart from my two sisters, and my mum and dad of course, nosotros had my grandma living with united states and my Uncle Robert, who was my mum'south youngest brother, and who went on to be a sports editor.

He played a lot of Rolling Stones. And my mum was a huge fan of Motown and besides loved a scrap of Herb Alpert. My dad's large favourite was Elvis Presley, so nosotros ever heard a lot of him.

My older sister Margaret was an absolute music nut. When I was however far too young to go to concerts, she was out there and would be going to see the likes of David Bowie and Roxy Music.

When she came home, she would tell me all virtually it and would even re-enact it for us! I know my absolute passion for music definitely came from my family unit.

2. Theatre trips

MY family were interested in the movie theater and the theatre, just I think that going with friends from school is really important to cultural education. It's such a unlike experience.

I know it still happens, and I call up it's really of import for those who, like me, found schoolhouse to be challenging. For me it'southward that really of import function of school where you accept to observe what the children are interested in and reply to that instead of only forcing things upon them that you think they should exist interested in.

I remember information technology's made me more accepting at the theatre too. I pretty much go with people on whatever mystery bout they want to take me on with their operation!

3. Running

AT school, I was that girl who never wanted to do PE. Ever. I absolutely hated information technology. Mayhap part of that was having to get into the gold-coloured Crimplene gymslip that we had to wear at Notre Dame. Those really didn't assist anyone to get fit and good for you.

For some reason, when I left schoolhouse, I decided to start running. I can't call up why just I'm so glad I did, and I've been running always since. I've never been very good at relaxing, and when people ask me what I do to relax, I say running. Nigh people discover information technology really bizarre, merely runners absolutely go it.

One unexpected only great side-issue is that it has helped my singing considering my lung capacity has increased. Mind to me talking near running and lung capacity, what'due south happened to me?! I tell you though, when you're on stage, singing and running almost for more than an 60 minutes, you recollect about lung capacity. Apart from that, information technology'south benign to my mental health. It'due south a time when I tin head off on my own and not call up almost annihilation else.

4. Fame at a young age

I KNOW for sure that this had a massive effect on me equally a teenager. I accept to say though, as young as I was, I knew that the well-nigh important thing for me was performing – I was aware that fame wasn't what I was looking for. At many points during that first period with Contradistinct Images I was still at quite a vulnerable age, so I was absolutely overwhelmed by the attending that it brought me.

I think that changed me then because I knew that to remain part of the business organisation that I was in, I had to find a way to do it on my ain terms. Sometimes it worked and sometimes it didn't ... nothing is ever that straightforward. I certainly knew that the more than intrusive aspect of the performing life was non for me. Ironically that kind of attention is really isolating, and I'm such a people person that I knew that if I had gone with it all, I would have been actually unhappy. It's very difficult to describe equally I'one thousand evidently looking back at a younger version of myself. I actually didn't feel ready for it, but to be honest, I still don't retrieve that if information technology happened now I would feel ready for it. It's merely non why I want to do what I do.

5. Becoming a mum

IF you don't think condign a parent will change your life, you lot're crazy! Obviously, my married man Stephen and I take had such an boggling route to becoming parents. We had 10 years of trying to have a child naturally, and those years were and so unbelievably difficult for us.

I think that struggle let us know how strong we were together and how we could piece of work together to brand things piece of work. In the end nosotros got at that place, and we had the run a risk to adopt our Ellie when she was eight months quondam.

Adoption is a actually humbling experience and I remember it makes you consider parenthood on a different level. There are and so many hoops to spring through, as there should exist really, and you have to requite such deep consideration to what parenting a kid is all nearly. It's such a different way to prepare and possibly in a way that not everyone becoming a parent has to call up nigh. I think anybody finds out virtually it quickly enough, but in the lead up I don't think you have to have that same level of consideration at the aforementioned level.

At present nosotros are a family and that'southward it. I'thousand admittedly delighted to have a moody teenager roaming almost the house!

6. Stephen

Stephen and Clare

I CAME back from a holiday in the south of France to exist told by our manager Gerry McElhone that Altered Images had a new member. That was the first time that I had ever heard of Stephen Lironi. Equally I call back information technology, the starting time thing he ever said to me was, "I recall you could really benefit from singing lessons."

And I was just similar… really?! I idea this is the get-go time I'thousand ever going to take to hitting someone. I've had records in the height 10! What do you mean I need singing lessons – y'all've only joined the band.

Withal, I did go along to go singing lessons from Scottish Opera, and information technology was a huge benefit. So it actually was a good proffer, but at first I thought, I'grand actually going to accept to punch this guy.

Ultimately it was so attractive to me that someone would be so honest with me, and for my own good. I never usually talk nearly Stephen publicly, and vice-versa, because it's such a strange thing I suppose. Thinking back though, and then much has changed since that kickoff, slightly frosty coming together. When I start met him at his mum's business firm in East Kilbride, how was I to know that we would be married, for 25 years at present, take a daughter, be living in London and own two restaurants – and that I would yet be performing!

seven. Becoming a eating house possessor

STEPHEN had been extremely unwell ... in fact he had had bowel cancer. For many years he had been working incredibly hard every bit a music producer – he really is the success story in the family unit.

And and then he got very ill. I think when many people get through a serious illness, it makes them reassess their lives. That's exactly what happened. When he felt recovered enough, he decided that he wanted to move on from what he'd been doing before.

When he said a restaurant I said, ''Actually?!'' I knew I had to support him in this and although the restaurants are ours, they are very much his matter.

When Stephen was sick he read an article about then much Scottish seafood going to Espana and we thought that we should exist challenge back some of that.

We now have ii restaurants, one quite shut to where we live in Crouch End and the other in Stoke Newington – it can be a difficult game and we're very lucky that they've been successful. One is chosen Bar Esteban; Esteban is Stephen in Castilian, and so it was the working championship. When it came to the opening, we merely kept it – at that place were as well many other things to think about. The other is called Escocesa, which is Spanish for Scotland, only no-one tin pronounce it.

8. Leeds Futurama

THIS was a huge indoor music festival that Altered Images played in 1980. It was also where John Skin showtime saw us and was a real turning bespeak for the band. It was where everything that nosotros wanted to practise with the band started to accelerate. As well at that festival were Simple Minds, Siouxsie And The Banshees, Echo And The Bunnymen ... yous name it, every important band of that era was there – bear in listen I was still a schoolgirl and I wasn't but there, I was actually part of it.

As exciting as it was at the time, I think it's actually only in hindsight that you become the significance of it. We were all pretty much still at school and among all these bands who were admittedly the most happening of the time.

9. Being an orphan

EVEN at 57 I struggle with this. My sisters and I lost our mum about 12 years ago then merely a few months ago we lost our dad. For the first time in my life I actually feel similar the adult, because when you're someone'south child you lot e'er feel like someone's child.

Even though at times I go things spectacularly wrong, I really am the product of good people who taught me that it's not about always getting it right. Sometimes it's about getting it wrong but beingness able to option yourself up subsequently that.

At any given time I will always think, what would my mum or dad do in this situation? They really didn't let us abroad with much, simply they were so much fun.

They knew it was all nearly being a performer for me and they helped me to grow up past trusting me. I'thou learning that it's a hard matter to practice, now that Ellie is about xv.

10. Hair straighteners

THESE have changed a lot of lives – certainly for people with naturally frizzy hair.

I was lucky, considering I come up from a family of hairdressers, including my mum, and so I had expertise at my disposal. The centre sister Katie has got poker-direct hair but my large sister Margaret and I both take naturally frizzy and unruly hair. At the start of the 80s we would get the chocolate-brown newspaper out and iron our pilus. I always wore it quite short, so it was a scrap of a death-defying stunt.

The bob which I had in Gregory's Girl was poker directly but that was ironed by my big sister. I don't recollect she ever got a credit for her contribution.

Clare Grogan appears in Let's Rock – The Retro Wintertime Bout at the SSE Hydro in Glasgow on Wed, Dec eleven

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